About Katja
I've been writing stories about people all my life. I love to notice what makes them tick, what makes them come alive, what lights their fire and makes them different. For me, the magic lives in the details where no one else is looking.
Writing a wedding ceremony is all about pulling the threads on those details and weaving it into something that reflects people in their best possible light. Something that wraps everyone up in all the love and excitement leading up to the big day and exudes authentic joy. What can I say? I love a celebration.
My ceremonies are inclusive, affirming, and creative — for all identities, all relationships, and for whatever you want your celebration to say.
photo: alba lumos photography
Q&A
What are your certifications?
I'm ordained as a minister through the Universal Life Church and a registered officiant with the City of New York.
Where do you do weddings?
I'm based in Brooklyn. My NYC registration and ordination through the Universal Life Church allows me to officiate throughout New York State and the rest of the country! I have also officiated in Delaware, Maine, and New Hampshire. I'm happy to travel with you — check out my services for more.
Do you do religious ceremonies?
I'm not a religious leader and I don't personally practice a religion. However, I was baptized in the Congregational church and I am the granddaughter of a reverend. While my ceremonies are secular, I believe that each individual's relationship to faith, spirituality, and the universe is sacred. I'm happy to talk to you about incorporating spiritual elements into your ceremony.
photo: alba lumos photography
What does the ceremony process look like?
Everything starts with a (free!) consultation. From there, we'll develop your ceremony content together. This comes from a combination of questionnaires and conversations (with you, your partner, and whoever else you might want to pull quotes from). I'll always get your final signoff before the big day, and I'll always sign and file the marriage license, with confirmation that it arrives safely. The rest depends on your unique needs.
What does a day-of coordinator do?
A coordinator keeps the wedding day (or weekend) on track — connecting with vendors, creating the timeline for the whole day, and making sure everything is on time and running smoothly. This can mean helping with decor, getting vendors settled in, giving you pep talks — whatever's needed to stay ahead of the craziness so you can focus on you.
What about LGBTQ weddings?
A thousand times yes! I have officiated for queer and trans folks. It's important to me to create ceremonies that reflect every aspect of you, your love, and your identity.
photo: susan stripling
Can I write my own vows?
Absolutely!
Do I have to write my own vows?
Absolutely not!
Can you officiate and coordinate my wedding?
You got it — tell me what you need and let's make it happen.